If you have had some children, they are part of your weaponry. Play football (yes that includes the girls) and any other sport they intend whenever possible, as a supplement to your training regime, but not as a replacement for it.
Recent studies show you need to do more physical activity as you get older, not less, as your metabolism slows down and your propensity to put on weight increases. You should also watch your diet far more carefully. That’s another chapter.
Another key element in your armoury is the regular, disciplined practice of a soft and hard martial art, ideally a combination of both, ying and yang, if you will. That’s a massive oversimplification but, it will do for now. Me? I practice Tae Kwon Do with my sons and train in the same class as them. They are 14 and 12, at the time of writing and very dangerous.
Soft and hard, ying and yang. One my of Tae Kwon Do masters put it best and it is something I am currently trying to put into practice, as I endeavour to crawl to black belt, but crawl I will. You need to be flexible, that creates speed and then that converts into power. So one of the key weapons is your dexterity. You may not be flexible now but in time and with daily practice you shall become far more flexible than you currently imagine, regardless of at what age you start. It has nothing to do with it. But here is a word of advice on this issue and indeed for everything this book will advise.
Be patient. It will take time and for you – grey warrior – longer than the others. My Yoga-practising wife said something to me that has stuck with me. You are as young as your back. That, in many ways is true. The greater dexterity you possess here and elsewhere around your core – the younger you are.
To clarify further, my dangerous 14-year-old used to swim and his coach at the time (a former Olympic competitor) said to me, when explaining why he had not been selected for a competition: “It is nothing to do with how good a swimmer he is, but how long he has been swimming.” It had been a couple of months only. His precocious younger brother started earlier and was in that squad! It is everything to do with carrying on with your journey. I have been practicising Tae Kwon Do now for some seven years now. At first I could not hold my leg sideways above my ankle.
Now I can hold it for over a minute parallel with my shoulder. How and why? Time. There is no shortcut, no quick fix. You must be patient and practice regularly all that you do, and then it will come. You must not look for a quick fix and when progress comes – you may not even notice it.
Saturday 12th, January.
Third session in the dojang after Christmas and the challenge is on. Cardiovascular, full on, no breaks. And the key is fight not flight. Back in April, 2011, I would have stopped and gone to the toilet to wretch a little. Lovely. Those days are gone. Some six months ago I developed tendonitis on my left Achilles. These are micro-tears which can be caused by various sudden stretching of the tendons. So I’m a little apprehensive, training again in bearfoot, after six months of trainers. I want my team to come first, but I don’t want to re-tear that tendon! Movement is good, the more load I have put on it, the better it has healed and the physio is happy. Maybe I’ll write about the joys of tendonitis later.
No pain, no discomfort, but here is the test for this fifty something. Tendons tighten as you get older. This tendon seems to have healed. And I’m off!!!
I come first in my heat (just) and our team comes first also in the sprint relay overall. I am back – or rather my tendon is. Truth is, when the teams were then juggled we came second and third. But this is progress. I like it.
February 16, 2018.
A heartfelt thank you to Master Janitzio Moreno, Pantera Tae Kwon Do, London.
I was up until early morning on several occasions this week, working on my research bid. In days gone by, I would have given up. Instead by bid is now with the European Commission – and I even polished it several times!
I want to make it clear to you that my physical and indeed mental resilience in adversity is in large part down to how you have trained me. You solve lots of other problems with other students – and nothing is ever said.
Well I am saying it!
I thank you from the bottom of my heart. To change the immortal words of Jackie Chan in the Karate Kid (obviously the most important film in my life): “Life is Kung-Fu (correction).” “Life is Tae Kwon Do!” It truly is part of all I do.
In your debt. Now that I have given you that tribute/testimonial can I pre-grade next week please?
I might cry off today, but in my dobok anyway. Depends if this cough abates a little.
All the very best, Paul.
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